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Celebrating Christian Funerals at Ste. Marguerite d'Youville Parish

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CELEBRATING Christian funerals:

"In the face of death, the Church confidently proclaims that God has created each person for eternal life and that Jesus, the Son of God, by his death and resurrection, has broken the chains of sin and death that bound humanity. Christians celebrate the funeral rites to offer worship, praise, and thanksgiving to God for the gift of a life which has now been returned to God, the author of life and the hope of the just."

PRAYING for our beloved departed:

"The Church through its funeral rites commends the dead to God's merciful love and pleads for the forgiveness of their sins. At the funeral rites, especially at the celebration of the eucharistic sacrifice, the Christian community affirms and expresses the union of the Church on earth with the Church in heaven in the one communion of saints. Though separated from the living, the dead are still one with community of believers on earth and benefit from their prayers and intercession. At the rite of final commendation and farewell, the community acknowledges the reality of separation and commends the deceased to God. In this way it recognizes the spiritual bond that still exists between the living and the dead and proclaims its belief that all the faithful will be raised up and reunited in the new heavens and a new earth, where death will be no more."

COMFORTING mourners:

"The celebration of the Christian funeral brings hope and consolation to the living. While proclaiming the Gospel of Jesus Christ and witnessing to Christian hope in the resurrection, the funeral rites also recall to all who take part in them God's mercy and judgment and meet the human need to turn always to God in times of crisis... 'If one member suffers in the body of Christ which is the Church, all the members suffer with that member' (I Corinthians 12:26). For this reason, those who are baptized into Christ and nourished at the same table of the Lord are responsible for one another .... when a member of Christ's body dies, the faithful are called to a ministry of consolation to those who have suffered the loss of one whom they love .... The Church calls each member of Christ's Body -- priest, deacon, layperson -- to participate in the ministry of consolation: to care for the dying, to pray for the dead, to comfort those who mourn. "

SHOULDERING our responsibilities:

"Members of the community should console the mourners with words of faith and support and with acts of kindness, for example, assisting them with some of the routine tasks of daily living. The community's principal involvement in the ministry of consolation is expressed in its active participation in the celebration of the funeral rites, particularly the vigil for the deceased, the funeral liturgy, and the rite of committal. In the celebration of the funeral rites, laymen and laywomen may serve as readers, musicians, ushers, pallbearers and, according to existing norms, as special ministers of the eucharist. The quotes above are from the Order of Christian Funerals, approved for use in the United States by the National Conference of Catholic Bishops and confirmed by the Apostolic See. 0 1989,1985, International Committee on English in the Liturgy, Inc. (ICEL). All rights reserved. Used with permission.

Some commonly asked questions

Why do we celebrate the funeral rites?

In the funeral rites we pray for the deceased, entrusting them to God's mercy and care. We honor the body. We comfort the living in their grief. We celebrate the funeral rites not only for the dead but also for the living.

Is cremation permitted by the Catholic Church?

Since 1963, the Church has permitted cremation as long as the Church's teaching on the resurrection of the body is upheld.

How are the rites celebrated for someone who chooses cremation?

The Church prefers that the body be present for the Funeral Liturgy and cremated following the Final Commendation of the Liturgy. If there is a serious reason, it may be possible to celebrate the Funeral Liturgy in the presence of cremated remains.

What rites can be used for miscarried or stillborn infants?

"Funeral Rites may be celebrated for children whose parents intended them to be Baptized but who died before Baptism. In these celebrations the Christian community entrusts the child to God's all-embracing love." (Order of Christian Funeral #237)

What rites can be used for a suicide victim?

This person is entrusted to God's love and mercy and is therefore entitled to the usual Funeral Rites.

What is done for a lapsed Catholic?

By virtue of Baptism this person is entitled to the prayers of the Church including the Funeral Rites.

What is the proper place for the Funeral Rites?

The Vigil service is celebrated in the presence of the body either in the funeral home or the Parish Church the night before. The Funeral Mass is always celebrated in the Church. The Commital Rite is preferably celebrated at the grave or the tomb.

Why do we recommend viewing in the Church before the funeral?

Gathering at the Church before the Funeral Mass begins allows family and friends a time to console one another, to say final goodbyes, and to enter into the spirit of prayer.

Where can I find the text for the prayers of the funeral service?

Ste. Marguerite d'Youville Parish uses the "Through Death to Life" booklet. If you wish to purchase this, you can find it on www.amazon.com and www.avemariapress.com.

What is the Rite of Committal?

The Rite of Committal is the third station of the Catholic funeral liturgy, after the Vigil (usually the day or night before the funeral) and the Funeral Mass (or Funeral Liturgy outside Mass). It is normally celebrated at the site of burial.

The rite begins with an Invitation to prayer, followed by a Scripture Verse, for which there are several options. Then comes the Prayer over the Place of Committal, with seven text options. Next comes the Committal itself, for which there are also seven text options.

Then come the Intercessions (four text options), the Lord's Prayer, a Concluding Prayer (five), the Prayer over the People, with two forms of the final blessing, depending on whether the minister is a cleric or not, and a dismissal.

A song may conclude the rite. Where it is the custom, some sign or gesture of leave-taking may be made.

Why is the grave or tomb the preferred site for the Rite of Committal?

The grave or tomb is preferred because the prayers from the ritual express clearly the finality of placing the body in the ground or in the tomb.

Order of Christian Funerals

THE ORDER OF CHRISTIAN FUNERALS has three principal parts: the Vigil for the Deceased; the Funeral Mass or the Funeral Liturgy outside Mass; the Rite of Committal.

VIGIL FOR THE DECEASED

INTRODUCTORY RITES
Greeting
Opening Song
Invitation to Prayer
Opening Prayer

LITURGY OF THE WORD
Scripture Readings with Responsorial Psalm
Homily

PRAYER OF INTERCESSION
Litany
The Lord’s Prayer
Concluding Prayer (A family member or friend may speak in remembrance of the deceased.)

CONCLUDING RITE
Blessing
Song and/or a few minutes of silent prayer

FUNERAL MASS

INTRODUCTORY RITES
Greeting & Sprinkling with Holy Water
Placing of the Pall (and Christian Symbols)
Entrance Procession
Song
Opening Prayer

LITURGY OF THE WORD
Scripture Readings with Responsorial Psalm and Gospel Acclamation
Homily
General Intercessions

LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST
Preparation of the Altar and the Gifts
Eucharistic Prayer
Communion Rite

FINAL COMMENDATION
Invitation to Prayer
Song of Farewell and Incense
Prayer of Commendation

PROCESSION TO THE PLACE OF COMMITAL

RITE OF COMMITTAL

Invitation
Scripture Verse
Prayer over the Place of Committal
Committal
Intercessions
The Lord's Prayer

Concluding Prayer
Prayer over the People

Readings for a Christian Funeral These Readings are suggested in the Order of Christian Funerals. At a funeral, one reading from the Old Testament, one from the New Testament and a Gospel are proclaimed. (Click onto the Bible Gateway and enter a bible reference from the tables below to get the verse online.)
Old Testament
2 Maccabees 12:43-46
Job 19:1, 23-27
Wisdom 3:1-9
Wisdom 4:7-15
Isaiah 25:6a, 7-9
Lamentations 3:17-26
Daniel 12:1-3

  New Testament
Acts 10:34-43
Romans 5:5-11
Romans 5:17-21
Romans 6:3-9
Romans 8:14-23
Romans 8:3lb-35, 37-39
Romans 14:7-9, l0c-12
I Corinthians 15:20-23, 20-28
I Corinthians 15:51-57
2 Corinthians 4:14 -5:1
2 Corinthians 5:1, 6-10
Philippians 3:20-21
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
2 Timothy 2:8-13
1 John 3:1-2
1 John 3:14-16
Revelation 14:13
Revelation 20:11 - 21:1
Revelation 21:1-5a, 6b-7
  Gospel
Matthew 5:1-12a
Matthew 11:25-30
Matthew 25:1-13
Mathew 25:31-46
Mark 15:33-39, 16:1-6
Luke 7:11-17
Luke 12:35-40
Luke 23:33, 39-43
Luke 23: 44-46, 50, 52-53; 24:1-6a
Luke 24:13-35
John 5:24-29
John 6:37-40
John 6:51-59
John 11: 17-27
John 11:32-45
John 12:23-28
John 14:1-6
John 17:24-26
John 19:17-18,25-39

 
Here are other alternate suggestions for appropriate readings:
Old Testament
Wisdom 3:1-6,9
  New Testament
Acts of the Apostles 10:34-36, 42-43
Romans 6:3-4,8-9
1 Corinthians 15:20-23
  Gospel
Mark 15:33-39
Luke 23:44-46,50,52-53
Luke 24:13-16,28-35
John 11:21-27
John 12:23-26

Music for a Christian Funeral
This is a list of appropriate songs for a Catholic funeral Mass. We hope it will be of aid to you at a difficult time. A parish representative will help you with your planning. During the season of Lent, we do not sing "alleluia."
ENTRANCE SONG
346 Be Not Afraid
424 For All The Saints
373 Here I Am Lord
240 Hosea
356 I Heard The Voice Of Jesus
456 I Know That My Redeemer Lives
368 Keep In Mind
423 Lift High The Cross
410 Shall We Gather At The River
266 The Strife Is O'er
469 We Will Rise Again

  RESPONSORIAL PSALM
344 Ps23  Shepherd Me, O God
23  Ps25  To You, O Lord
24  Ps27  The Lord Is My Light
437 Ps34  Taste And See
336 Ps91  On Eagle's Wings
37  Ps103 Loving And Forgiving
44  Ps130 With The Lord
340 Ps139 You Are Near
32  Ps91  Be With Me Lord
  OFFERTORY HYMS
349 All I Ask Of You
342 Amazing Grace
422 Ave Maria
355 Eye Has Not Seen
416 Hail Mary Gentle Woman
356 I Heard the Voice Of Jesus Say
192 Like A Shepherd
392 Prayer of St. Francis
463 Precious Lord Take My Hand
27  The Cry Of The Poor
295 We Are The Light Of The World
328 We Walk By Faith
357 You Are Mine
340 You Are Near
COMMUNION SONG
444 - Alleluia! Sing To Jesus
359 - Blest Are They
435 - Eat This Bread
429 - Gift Of Finest Wheat
291 - How Great Thou Art
449 - I Am The Bread Of Life
336 - On Eagles Wings
433 - One Bread, One Body
335 - Seek Ye First
437 - Taste And See
381 - We Have Been Told
330 - We Remember
  RECESSIONAL SONG
349 - All I ask Of You
408 - Battle Hymn Of The Republic
283 - Crown Him With Many Crowns
424 - For All The Saints
338 - How Can I Keep From Singing
456 - I Know That My Redeemer Lives
      (J'Lrai La Voir Un Jour (FRENCH))
246 - Jesus Remember Me
391 - Let There Be Peace On Earth
315 - Sing A New Song
77  - May The Angels
266 - The Strife Is O'er

 
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